I felt serabut gile last night that's why i asked about who is staying in Australia tu. As you all know or do not know yet, kevin is going and now confirm going to further study. And i knew that he is going to Australia. Probably in July. For a couple of years or more. He said that he is going to study and make some money there. I tried to be very supportive of this situation. Him and I are pretty committed to each other and we want to stay near to each other but he said that this is important for our future too. I'm wondering if it is a realistic expectation that we will be able to get through that, I am not pretty confident that we could. I don't know why, but maybe because i am too weak. The distance and separation only made the pre-existing problems in our relationships worse. Plus foreign girls are hot ! The temptations are too high. My life would sucks without him around to share everything. How to make sure that it is going to be great and stay strong for the both of us. Will it affect our relationship? I'm just looking to get some opinion on it from people out there. Thanks.
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just leave it to GOD..InsyaAllah...kalau ade jodoh x kemana...
dh lama x drop komen kt cni..rndu sgt
relax yana, jgn pk yg bukan2 dear..
yana percaya kevin kn! cik pida pon pecaya kevin xkan buat semua tu.... just trust him..;)
everything gona be ok.. wat biasa je.. u can get thru this..
hot? hmmm. ada la jgk yg hot... but from my observation, local x campur sgt dengan international student... especially asian. tp mungkin jgk sbb asian x campur org sgt dan ada clan sndr (ni yang saya nmpk kt melbourne uni student yang ambik commerce, yg lain sy x tau :p) TAPI asian girls BYK yang hot.
tapi i rasa kevin orang yang setia kn... so u dont have to worry about it :) and most of my guy frens yg dh ada gf kt msia semua masih bersama lagi.. jgn risau sgt k :)
no dear.. australian girls are not hot.. they are a mess.. malaysian girls are better..
regrds,
dina
any relationship is never easy. be it short distance or a long distance relationship. for me, trust is key but that doesn't mean you should trust him entirely. save some for yourself. always find a way to keep in touch. there's always skype or ym besides the usual phone. don't drag small things into big issues because when you're apart, it's takes longer to resolve things. and lastly, hope for the best but always be prepared for the worst (touch wood). you'll be fine, arianna. i know u would. and stop worrying. :)
ps: u can check this link too. hope it'll help. http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/how-to-make-a-relationship-work-when-you-live-in-different-cities-1268649/;_ylt=Ag_Y9UwWtYTWu48Rt2fx9_NabqU5
Ari
as for me, ermm...this gonna be tough. wether u start approaching your parents about this relationship (of course in a very vague version)
or,
pegi la wat MSc kat sana jugek he he he... dont choose the same uni, but at least in one province hehehe
hey, came across ur blog last week, looks pretty interesting. anyways, LDRs are all about communication. =) What I do is, I skype skype skype... Almost 2 yrs of long distance relationship now.. we'r doing grrreattt!
arianna,
as u know, i've been there and alhamdulillah manage to go thru the situation. IF u say that u r pretty committed to each other, i dont see any problem there. semua nye bergantung pada hati dan kepercayaan kita kepada diri sendiri dan pasangan. this apply to both parties.
owh,sebelom i membebel banyak2. lupe plak nak ucap congrats. tahniah kepada kevin dpt lanjutkan pelajaran abroad. this wud be an eye opener to him. banyak pengalaman yg bagus untuk ditimba. which part of aussie, if i may ask.
as u know, i was in UK for almost a year. sumpah paling benci sbb jarak masa yg jauh. bile i bgun, org mesia tido, bila i tido, org mesia bangun. especially musim winter bile ade pertambahan 1 jam dlm beza masa. 1st few months i nanges bagai nak gile. alhamdulillah my parents always work late, so biasanye bile diorg balik malam2 tu they will skype with me first. and luckily my bf pon kerja shift, so there're times when we can spend tanpa rasa bersalah sbb 'owh die kene pergi kerja' that kind of thing. or i kene pergi kelas.
i selalu on webcam, tido pon i on webcam. biar org mesia boleh nampak. hehehe. plus di uk kan fon boleh on skype FOC. so org boleh call ske hati la bebila pon gune skype. kadang2 i spent time makan bersama depan webcam tak kire la i dinner die bfast ke. biarlah die makan lain aku makan lain. as long as i can see that we r having our meal together. mmg sedih sket la sbb we longed for the touch and even the smell kan. tp hati kene kuat.
kadang2 sampai tatau dah nak ckp apa masa on webcam. so we end up playing games together. do u know that skype has pretty cool games to play together with the one u chatted? syiok ooo main bom bom kapal. hehehhehe sometimes, sekarang i rindu gile zaman berjauhan mcm tu. sbb we wud appreciate the limited time we spend together. skarang mana ada nak men game sama sama mcm dulu. nak online pon payah. pffffttttt
apa pon, hati kene kuat. percaya pada Allah. kalau die jodoh u, insyaAllah esok esok akan bersatu juga. kalau die bukan jodoh u, usaha la mcm nak rak tertunggeng pon... if Allah says no, sapa kita nak menolak kan? lg satu, just think like this, jauh ke dekat ke, manusia, kalau die nak buat perangai, die tetap akan buat. jadi, u MUST be strong and percaya pada Allah.
from time to time, plan la to visit him. both of u will have that 'looking fwd' feeling. jadi harapan berbunga dlm hati tu sentiasa ada. nanti bile dha jumpe, rasa seronok sgt.
so be cool ye arianna.
Takpe babe, u pun boleh gi pi holiday kat Aust tu.. so dont be too gabra okay
hmm...
Long-distance relationship IS possible Arianna..
some of my friend survived even they're across the globe from each other~
In this era of globalized technology, (erk! macam karangan pulak) nothing is impossible...kan ada SKYPE or YM yang bleh connect you and Kev. So, no sweat! ;>
Cuma, masing2 kena kuat la.. Jangan sebab distance jauh jer dah jauh hati la, takde perasaan lagi la...Tu semua alasan jer...
Kalaw dah cinta,beribu batu pn rasa kat seblah jer..hahah!
p/s:sori lama tak komen, baru active blog blk. :)
Terima kasih banyak2 semua yang sudi berikan pandangan. Saya rasa lebih lega dan redha bila baca pendapat u all ni. I've to be fair to him. i've to carry on with my life. till then, saya berserah.
paling penting,kena jujur..
insya-Allah tak ada masalah
=)
dont you think things happen for a reason? Setiap yang berlaku ada hikmahnya? for a relationship to succeed, you really have to work on it. both of you for sure. and you can visit him now and then. skype is wajib. for the past few month is gonna b really2 tough.
for me, i have to see him. sebulan sekali pon dah bersyukur. kalau tak, boleh mati lol :)
goodluck arianna. you can do this. we will support you
situasi yang sama bila my bf dapat sambung belajar tapi dalam malaysia ni je huhu..
sedih dan selalu fikir macam-macam.. tapi u mesti tahu kevin macam mana kan..
i pun ok sekarang ni tapi kadang-kadang tu berfikiran songsang jugak... sebab bukan ada depan mata kan..
tapi,i know u can do it!!!
typo typo! haha dah agak dah.
**for the first few month
:)
Afra- don't worry, i get what u mean. haha like your advice. akan dipraktikkan. thanksss
NadiaShafiqa - thanks ye. u've made me stronger =)
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