I'm sorry..
I dont know what am i thinking.
I'm not sure if this decision is right or wrong.
Apart of me feel awkward and i chose not to face it.
I don't feel good about this. Until now.
Am i a coward?
Kevin kept calling me for an answer. He is arriving tomorrow and wants me there.
I kept quite..
Kevin must hate me at this time.
='(
31 speak up:
pegi la yana, cuma pasangkan niat lain kat hati kau..
niat nak melawat orang sakit.. :)
mana tau ayah dia tak panjang umur,
who's know kan...
then kevin nak kau ada time dia tengah sedih...
kan? kevin tengah cuba yang terbaik,
cuma nak kan support dari kau je..
ceaa aku yang lebih kan..haha! apa2 pun...terpulang...kadang2 berdiam diri memang ok, tapi bukan semuaaaa.... :)
cea aku cam tambahkan kekusutan kau..hahaha! tak la..apa2 pun. fikir yang terbaik..k
zack u...
nak hug sekarang boleh?.. =,(
im ur silent reader.i think u should go.try to think on the bright side instead of worrying so much about what his mom would say/think if she finds out.tasalah jenguk orang sakit.lg2 dia najumpa u kan.
just my 2cents
k.yana. u should go.
i think u should go. avoiding doesn't settle anything.. be brave! :)
yana..pergi... tak elok hampakan harapan orang sakit.. pergi yana... jgn bt mcm ni.. ntah bila je ayah dia tu hidup... pergi la.. kitakan orang melayu, penuh dengan adab, org dah jemput, pergi. dalam Islam sendiri melawat orang sakit itu adalah perkara yang wajib disegerakan... pergi yana.... plzz........ mcm mane klw ko kat tmpt kev... apa yg ko rase klw org yg ko syg dan cinta tak nak jumpa org yg penting dlm hidup ko.. pergi yana... tolonggg laa...
Hye yana...
I think you should just go. If you don't, you'll keep thinking "what if I had go, what if this..., what if that..." and more what ifs will bother you forever. Trust me...we've all been through that haven't we? Coz life is all about making choices. But choosing not to go won't solve anything dear. It will only leave the issues you're having with his mom pending until god knows when..
Plus, think of Kevin. He's having a tough time now with his dad's sick and all, I'm sure he would want you to be there by his side, supporting him. Wouldn't you want him to be there for you too if you're in his situation?
If you go, even if things don't turn out OK, at least you know you tried to make it work, you DID something.
OMG...so panjang la plak comment ni. Haha...sorry babe. I'm just a third party, an outsider, and have no right whatsoever to advice you actually, but I've been reading your blog for awhile now and I feel like I owe you this since I had a great experience reading your blog (in other words, I think I cared) =)
Sorry if offended you or anything. Didn't mean to. Take care and please think through this and decide wisely...
xoxo
CS
well,
there is certain things that we regret,
but choosing not to go,
will haunting you,
forever,
p/s : just go, thats a MUST :)
sis, you should go. kevin need u now.
you shud go.. ;)
yana, i think u should go.
dulu pun penah ada krisis camni dgn bf (now tunang). mak die nak jumpa without him knowing. mmg mula2 rasa cam mak die nak pisahkan kitorg but after dah jumpa, baru tahu yg mak die berniat baik. nak tahu sama ada saya sanggup ke x bersusah senang dgn anak die.
so yana, just GO!
u wouldn't know the outcome if u didn't even try.
plz....yana. go.
for the sake of Kevin, ur love n urself.
p/s : is crossing my fingers n praying for you. =)
You are worrying to much about what his mother will say if she's find out. Tapi macamana kalau tiba-tiba you tak pegi pun jumpa, but she still find out about the plan , and end up saying,
"Is this kind of girl yang you cinta sampai tak dengar cakap mama, kevin? Papa you nazak pun dia tak mau datang jumpa."
arianna, pegi la...x baik hampakan org yg tgh sakit...kalau xnak pegi atas sbb lain, juz pasang niat utk lawat ayah die, mcm zack u ckp..
jgn hampakan harapan org yg tgh sakit..
juz bg pandangan...nway, pk btol2 ye.. :)
yana..just go ok dear..maybe ada hikmah sebalik nie..
niatkan just nak melawat orang sakit mcm sepet cakap..
insyaallah akan doakan yang terbaek buat yana..
You should go.. just like others here, I'm just an outsider but I've been reading your blog.. I wish you'll be happy as how happy I am reading your blog..
So, this is just an advice.. jgn hampakan ayah kevin..
sorry kalau I offended you or what. Love ya.
hye yana,
yeap.... as every one suggested here, am going to suggest the same thing too. PERGILAH. well, we can always advise and u make the final decision.
u have to remember, tak semua org dibesarkan dlm suasana dan latar belakang yg sama mcm kita dibesarkan. tak semua ada family yg supportive mcm family u. For me, this is the time where u have the golden opportunity untuk tunjuk betapa indahnya Islam, betapa cantiknya adab dan tata susila org melayu. Mungkin mereka akan salah anggap, mungkin mereka akan mengata belakang, mungkin u sendiri akan sakit hati lepas tu, tapi u dah buat, cuba yg terbaik. sesalan akan dtg tak sama dengan sesalan bila u tak pergi. Jangan bg peluang mereka mengata agama dan adab2 kita, ye.
summore, he is in need of ur support now. just remember how sweet and supportive he has been for u all this while. Betul ckp yg lain, pasangkan niat lawat org sakit. lawat org sakit ni dah jatuh hukum Fardhu kifayah. Besar pahalanya. jangan lupa bawa buah tangan, either die nak terima or tak nak, itu cerita lain. At least u dah tunjukkan adab adab melawat org sakit.
Plus kalau u berdiam diri, they will think that u r a snob after all. belom kahwin dah buat perangai gini, whatelse later when their child convert and decide to be with u, they must think they wont get their son back. Kalau yana pikir dilemma yana besar, think about them. Mereka yang membesarkan kevin, bg didikan, asuhan, pelajaran and bila kevin dah besar pandai buat decision sendiri, he's going against the tradition and their tunjuk ajar. Eventho for a good cause for us, they didnt see it like that.
Pergi ye yana. baca ayat kursi banyak2, ayat 1000 dinar banyak2, supaya di beri kekuatan. Just put urself in his shoes, what if things happen the same on ur side, and kevin turns down the offer, how wud u feel? how wud ur sick dad feel? how wud ur mom yg konon tak suka tp deep down inside mesti nak tahu juga apa cerita sebenar feels?
u have our prayers and support yana. share some with kevin, will ya?
must go.
sian kevin.
yana..i think better u go...owg tngah sakit n i'm sure kelvin mesti perlukan u saat2 ni..dia mesti megharap yg u pegi...klu daddy dia xpnjg umo..nt takot 1 hri nt u menyesal..baik pegi dri menyesal kemudian hari kan..dun think so much...niat dlm hati nk pegi melawat je..yg lain tolak ke belakang dulu
kevin byk bersama u bler u jg clara dsb..but this time bkn org luar..tp ayah kevin..the most important person in his life..
i think u should go..tolak sumer the -ve thinking..byk sgt -ve pun masalah jugak..just pasang niat melawat org sakit..
stengah kter silent is the best treatment..tp kene ikut situasi..x sumer bende treatmentnyer adalah sama kan..:)
-afay-
yana..i think u should go.! kevin perlukan yana bersama2 utk harungi dugaan percintaan korang..
kevin buat yang terbaik utk both of u..just go.. baik ke buruk jdnye yana xkan rugi ape2 coz yana n kevin sama2 berjuang..
lgpun yana, kevin always support yana dlm ape yana buat cth bout clara kevin sentiasa bersama yana rite dear..y not dis time yana support ape yg die buat utk both of u at least jgn kevin rasa yana x bersama die bille die perlukan yana sgt2..
besides dat, pergilah atas niat menziarahil org sakit..org sakit ni yana, mesti ad sebab bile die nk sesuatu sblm pergi..smpaikanlah hajat ayah kevin..
juz go yana...for dis time i pray hard for u supaya semuanye ok..n hope sgt yana buat kptsn yg btl dan x melukakan hati insan yg yana sayang..
stella pun sy yakin akan berada di pihak yana n kevin.
I dont blame Kevin for hating you. I would hate you as well if i am in his shoes. If you are not serious dump him and go out with that malay guy Sid la why destroy poor Kevins life. Typical Melayu yang tak cukup satu BF
u should go kak yana..
i thnk u shud go..u dont know what might happen if u dont go..at least..do it for kevin..support him in ths way..
yana, pergi la...
If he die u would regret ur decision forever! Enough said.
engkau mmg selfish kan?!
i dont see why Kevin should stay with an ungrateful person like u.
he's sweet and all. but u? tak sudah-sudah menyusahkan hati dan perasaan dia.
dia sedaya upaya try to make u happy. but u, sedaya upaya buat dia miserable.
yana;
mie nk comment, tp da ramai gile yg ckp benda yg sama. so, yana musti da boleh pk blk dlm2 kn..
BTW,anon: "Typical Melayu yang tak cukup satu BF" ???????????????? pff!
salam..
saya mempunyai pengalaman percintaan yang sama dengan saudari. Bezanya saya, yang Islamnya sebelah lelaki dan yang sakitnya ibu kesayanganya. Saya tahu bila dalam keadaan ini serba salah. Sebenarnya, boleh fikir dari segi positif. Jangan pergi kerana kasian seperti saranan pembaca yang lain. Pergi kerana ikhlas. Ya, mungkin ibunya tidak lagi menerima tetapi ingat syurga seorang isteri di sisi suaminya. If the husband agreed and loves u, want u to be as part of Kevin, dont u think the situation will be differ later on? Lis jua pernah melalui kali pertama berjumpa dengan family partner kita. Bukan senang lebih lebih lagi bila kita berlainan bangsa dan agama. Well, think deeply. Dear, semua ada kali pertama. Take up ur courage dan melangkahlah dengan lebih berani. Kita wanita yang berani dan istimewa. K?
Lis clash dengan si dia sudah sekrang, namun hubungan Lis dengan family dia tetap baik dan erat. Think positive. believe urself that u has that charm
~With all your love, wish be the best of luck...
i'm going tomorrow.
all of you have inspired me enough to have the courage. Thank you is not enough i guess. i now believe there are still many kind hearted people out there..
thanks all! with all my love
Arianna
i wish u all the best dear !! :)
that's my girl...good luck & i wish u all the best *hugs*
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