araianna...just forget it him.. coz im 100% think that if he changed his religion to muslim is that becoz of u.. becoz of love..! not even to OUR GOD (ALLAH) u should think about that arianna... if u realy loves kevin...just forget it him... give space for him to realize his self to be sum1... mybe i cant feel how ur feeling but... juz wondering u that “ boleh ke awak bimbing dia arianna???????? fikir sehabis baik arianna...jiwa muda sekarang mmg kita xdpt nk tolak....even u ckp trust him 100%... NOOO!! u wrong...selagi u xjadi wife die...dont! jgn letakkan kepercayaan 100% untuk die... u know what, u dont know what his doing there arianna....U DONT KNOW! even u ckp he never lie before this to u...but remember arianna, everybody make mistake....and u cant say that he never lies to u arianna..becoz he really far from u arianna..u cant c what his doing...ape lg his not muslim...u even no if he doing sumthg bad behind u... remember arianna...think about ur feeling someday.......
Maybe she/he is right also.. and I really don't know what to say...
33 speak up:
he/she's got point.
:)
Hi arianna. That's normal. That's what other people usually do. Giving advices in a very annoying way I could say. Well you know what, don't take it seriously. You don't even know who that person is. Let he/she say what he/she wanna say (i bet it's a SHE.. hehehe). But what's important is your own self. You know who you are. And you know who Kevin is. Just be firm, be strong, and keep on having faith in your relationship okay. It's God willing to determine if it would success or not. =)
ps: sorry, but i really have to say this. that person has gut to utter such comment even with all the errors in his/her grammar... hehehehehe...
be strong dear!
she/he is right i think, selama ni teringin jugak nk cakap benda yg sama, tapi takut if i hurting u..but u cant deny once u get opinion from them, sometimes org diluar mampu melihat lebih dr apa yg kita nampak, sebenarnya cinta saja xcukup, sbb perjalanan utk sebuah perkahwinan akan datang lebih penuh dgn pancaroba dan dugaan, dan pada masa itu ia akan bergantung pd kita bgmana utk mengekalkan hubungan itu hingga ke akhir hayat, perlahan2lah arianna utk membawa Kevin ke dalam Islam, pastikan Kevin mencintai Islam kerana Allah S.W.T, kerana dari situ akan munculnya cinta pada Arianna kerana Allah juga..insyaallah...wish u all the best dear..
betul... mungkin dia benar.. tapi doesnt mean perlu ikut cakap dia...
buat yang terbaik, doa selalu Allah bagi yang terbaik untuk kita..
apapun, Allah still bagi pilihan untuk kita.. siapa pun lelaki tu, muslim ke non muslim, patut diberi peluang....
just trust him. kalau dia berniat jahat dengan u, dah lama dia amik kesempatan... takkan dia bawak jumpa ayah dia..
hidup ini terlalu complicate kalau asyik nak dengar cakap orang.. huhuhuhu...
that is just too negative, i think. should be a little more supportive and optimist.
dont give up please. and dont live based on other's opinion only, think about both of you as well.
i wish u good luck :)
dear,
ye mungkin ada betul apa yg dia cakap
but dear, you must also know
If Allah wants it to happen, it will happen :)
You boleh cuba, dan selebihnya bertawakal lah kepada Allah s.w.t sbb semua yg terjadi ada hikmah disebaliknya.
Jodoh pertemuan di tangan tuhan, no matter how hard you try, kalau Kevin tu mmg bukan takdir kamu, tetapla tidak bersama jugak akhirnya.
But, if you forget him also, kalau dah memang jodoh kamu dgn Kevin, tetaplah bersama jugak one day kan :)
hey arriana,
i think you should have the benefit of a doubt on kevin because obviously you know him so much better than anyone reading this blog. And a girl always have a good instint if their partner is up to something bad. The whole issue on religion shouldnt cause a problem with you now, dont think too negatively. What you're doing now is reasonable, you're not forcing it into him he's discovering it himself. If it's meant to be, its meant to be. And that comment about boleh ke you guide him? it shouldnt even be a big deal because its a learning process. Even born muslims dont even practice it fully. It's the desire of learning being a muslim from kevin's part thats important and also for you to show him a good example. People are so caught up by questioning whether you are able to guide kevin or not and whether he is doing it for you or for Allah. That is none of their business, unless they know you personally than they can judge you as a muslim. Although it is a big task in guiding someone to convert, but its also a good thing and you shouldnt make it so negative.
At the same time, this is YOUR life, dont make decisions based on comments made by other people. Weigh out the good and the bad. It shouldnt change your perspective of kevin.
dear....frankly speaking....just follow wht ur heart says....if God says he's the one for u, then he will be...I've been through all this and YES its hard coz of the religion and all. She's right abt "think abt ur feeling" and remember dear, no matter wht, urself always comes first...just be strong dear and for sure u will find the way....:)-Sis Diana-
hi.....
mmg ade betol die cakap....
but..................,
untuk berlaku CURANG, tak semestinya di sebabkn die jauh dari u, n he was far2 away from u.....iyenye terletak pada HATI. walaupun die bukan NON-MUSLIM, tak semestinya die akan terjebak dgn semua perkara2 yg tak elok....u noe him.yes,semua org wat mistake....tapi, u tahu siapa die.tanya hati u sendiri...kata org,kalu kita dekat dgn seseorg,NALURI kita terhadap dia, ada betolnya. semuanya adelah sb KEPERCAYAAN, walaupun die dekat dgn u, tapi kalu u not trust him, or either him, semuanya akan musnah jugak. iye, kita mmg banyak kekurangan, tapi selagi kita percayakan Allah, insyaAllah, Dia akan mmbuka hati kita, untuk mmbimbing kita mnahupun dia ke jalan yg lebih baek....siapa kita untuk bercakap, jika die masuk islam semata2 kerana CINTA?isi hatinya,hanya Allah yg tahu.jika benar kerana CINTA, tidak mengapa, kerana kasihnye terhadap kamu itu yg akan mmberi cahaya kepada jln yg benar. insyaAllah.kita sama2lah berdoa.
hmmmmm.....hi yana!!!
ada betul jd dia ckp tu..p-k baik2 ya
hai there,
sy rase kalo nk keyakinan dan yakin dgn apa jua yg kita lakukan, selalu la buat sembyg hajat. minta petunjuk dari ALLAH.
Sb orang kata, smbyg istikharah dilakukan apabila kita baru nk mula berkenalan dgn seseorang dan blm ada lagi perasaan syg yg mendalam. Tapi sypun xberapa arif dan pasti.
Apepun selalu doa byk2 dan semoga semuanya baik2 sahaja ya!. Have a nice day and take care k. =)
hai ariana. this might be the first or second time i comment your blog. i do love reading but so lazy to comment. just a short one k.. somehow, i think his/her is right. he may love u so much but the fact that he's going to convert will only because of you and love not because of your God and the love to Islam. sorry, i'm judging. but just wanna say that that person have a point. :)
arianna syg,
Da choice in your hands dear..
u r big enuf to think..no matter what...we cant sure our future..but we can plan it..walaupun plan Allah itu yg pasti tp Allah tak kata bahawa hambaNya x perlu berusaha utk future..ape dlm hati Kevin a.k.a Karim hanya dia dan Allah saja tahu..leave it to Allah..jgn kerana comments org yg tak duduk di situasi arianna..u take it sepenuhnya..
mcm alia merancang utk future tp plan Allah itu lebih dr segalanya...merancang utk bahagia dgn si dia..tunggu masa utk disatukan..tp dia pergi dulu..Allah lebih tahu kan yg terbaik utk kita..so REDHA itu perlu..then u'll have a meaningful life even without the person u love..
apepun sukar utk bicara ttg hati..n arianna tahu ape yg terbaik utk arianna kan?
GO GO DEAR..
Heart U,
Alia Iman
Arianna,kalau nasihat ini adalah salah sila abaikan.
Kamu cintakan dia?
sudah tentu.
Kamu yakin dengan dia?
sudah tentu.
Cinta pada manusia tak salah,cuma jangan melebihi tuhan.
Tapi kalau kalau kamu ikhlas CINTAKAN kevin,dan begitu juga kevin ikhlas cintakan kamu,kamu akan ada 'RASA' antara satu sama lain.
Maksudnya,walau dia buat salah sedikit pun di belakang kamu,kamu akan RASA.Kalau dia rindukan kamu, pun kamu akan rasa.Ini adalah daripada motavasi yang i pernah dengar,dan i sendiri aplikasikan di dalam hidup sendiri.Ianya benar dan berjaya dengan bantuan Allah s.w.t
Dalam hal ni,jangan terlalu dengar banyak sangat pendapat kerana kamu akan keliru,Minta pada tuhan kerana dia lebih mengetahui.
Jangan sesekali mengalah selagi belum sampai noktah yang memang mengatakan ianya TIDAK AKAN BERLAKU.
Ingat hanya USAHA+DOA+TAWAKAL yang akan mengubah takdir hidup kamu.
Pasal Kevin nak convert tu,kamu kenalah berbincang dengan dia sendiri secara halus agar tiada hati yang terluka.
Semoga segala urusan kamu dipermudahkan =)
TRUST is the base of a relationship. Walau beribu batu pun,cinta dan kasih syg tak mungkin berubah klau it really meant to be! And rememba,religion dont plays a part on sum1's behaviour towards the partner. Tak semestinya if he's not Islam,he might not b gud ter.. It depends sista,dont listen to anyone. Trust yourself and ur love,yeah maybe she's right,dnt trust him 100%.. U cn take note of that.. But it doesnt mean u dnt have to trust him at all. Klau seseorng nak buat slh,if husbnd n wife living in a same house pown,he still can do.. Tp,klau dier jenis yg setia,beribu batu jauh pun,ttp yg tersyg yg dihati ! Trust ur love gal,be strong!
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Assalamualaikum Arianna.
let's look at these:
1. ada orang yang lahir sebagai muslim dan mati sebagai muslim.
2. ada orang yang lahir sebagai kafir dan mati sebagai kafir.
3. ada orang yang lahir sebagai muslim tapi mati sebagai kafir.
4. ada orang yang lahir sebagai kafir tapi mati sebagai muslim.
life is uncertain, sebab tu Tuhan jadikan kita khalifah dekat muka bumi ini untuk lihat bagaimana kita terus berusaha sampai ke akhir hayat untuk mengenali Penciptanya.
Never give up. Kevin could be a miracle. Everything is possible here if you keep praying to Him. :)
Arriana,
This annon is being unfair. Dont just simply take his word. You know kevin better than anyone else. Yes kevin is not a muslim, tapi siapa kita untuk menentukan masa depan, Tuhan memilih siapa yang dia kehendaki untuk menerima hidayah. kadangkala saudara baru itu Islamnya lebih kuat dari segelintir kita yang Islam hanya pada keturunan.
My dear, I believe that we should not judge people lah, especially when he/she said this: 'ape lg his not muslim'. For me, that's a bit harsh. I disagree with that comment a lot.
People can change for the better & influence from people & surrounding pun memainkan peranan juga but first and foremost is sincerity and determination untuk berubah datang dari diri sendiri. Klu sudah ditakdirkan Kevin memeluk Islam satu hari nanti, no one can deny that. Kun Fayakun...
No one have the right to tell you whether to leave him or to stay. No one could tell you how much you should trust him. People can give opinion and it's up to you to decide. Semuanya terpulang pada your own self.
Sebagai manusia kita doakan saja yang terbaik for our future. Asalkan kita yakin pilihan kita tepat, serahkan selebihnya pada Allah SWT kerana DIA yang Maha Mengetahui. At the same time berusaha for the better. Kesabaran itu pahit tapi buahnya manis :)
maybe what he/she says tu ada benarnya juga. its just love kan, cinta yang mungkin tak membawa ke syurga. tapi, siapalah kita nak judge orang kan. mungkin he'll convert because of u, because of love, but someday maybe hati dia memang niat kerana Allah kan? kita tak tahu hati orang. Commentor ni ada point juga, yang i believe most of us agree, tapi at the end, it all back and depend on u, ariana.i'm just hoping,when the day itself come for you to decide, saya doakan kamu buat pilihan terbaik. sebab, pilihan itulah yang akan lead u ke jalan seterusnya.
come on arianna...wake up for dis..
nobody want to hurt..but better late than never...im so scared with u arianna...juz to remind u.. if u trust kevin is yours...juz forget him..until he really changed his status to muslim wth his pure his heart not becoz of others.....
juz believe in ALLAH.....
if u cry sumday becoz lose smthing....nothing can change again...it too late..trust me... ALLAH is everthing arianna....everthing...just.. plez...think for that..
just to share what happend in the past....so hurt!!!!
salam arianna...just nak bagitahu..comment tue mmg ada betul nya.. tapi percaya la pada Allah.. doa, doa n doa...doa bisa mengubah segala nya.. kan Allah pernah bersabda yang Dia takkan ubah takdir hamba Nya kecuali jika hamba Nya berusaha untuk mengubah nya.. mmg tiap2 perjalanan hidup kita dah di tentukan di Luh Mahfuz, but the power of Doa..you have to try.. n tawakkal pada Allah..
my love story is not easy too.. but now kami dapat hadapi segala kesusahan yg melanda..n insyaAllah,we going to make a step forward in our relationship..
just ask Allah to give you His guidance dan permudah kan segala2 nya...
hi arianna :)
for whatever it is, you must have faith in yourself, and the love you had for kevin. i guess it's quite unfair for people to ask you to forget ur bf, but they are not the one that been in your shoes or maybe have not been experiencing in love with someone so dear but far far away, (+ the racial and religious issue)..
i've been in one hard relationship before, i know he made lots of mistake to me, and me myself had quite do the same to him. but in the end, we agree that we cnx live without each other.
and as for today, we are into 3 months of marriage, and we are one month pregnant!
have faith okie :) wish the best for two of you, ever after. xoxo.
assalamualaikum...
kak yana..
the best way is solat istikharah..
pndgn manusia penting..namun pandangan ALLAH itu lbh baik dr sgalenya..berbalik pd DIA..
DIA yg menentukan sglenya..
tanya pd ALLAH mne yg terbaik utk akak..mudah mudahan diberi petunjuk yg terbaik..ameen...;-)
hye yana!
how r u? :)
too negative lah commenter tuu.. bagus ape yana nak bimbing kelvin masuk Islam kannn..
at first, niat ape pun takpe, janji dia masuk Islam dulu. then dia boleh blajar slow2..
hidayah tu dari Allah..kalau Allah nak kasi, sekarang pun boleh kasi kan?
yg penting skrg..it is u yana.. u yg nak membimbing dia.. so as a grown up girl, u know what u have to do.
jgn jadi ketam yg mngajar anak nya bejalan lurus.
u know what i mean.
gudluck arianna..
rina doakan semoga segalanya dipermudahkan oleh Allah...semoga kebahagiaan dunia dan akhirat disediakan buat arianna, kevin dan kita semua.
amin
i couldn't say more..u already have 27 opinions..but whatever it is..Allah know best and you know who you really are and kevin right?
jgn terlampau dgr ckp org and jgn tak ambil kire sgt jugak ckp org..eerr..u know what i mean right?
i'll pray for you ;p
arianna,
don't give up until u try!
give Kevin a chance.
kalo kita ikhlas,
Allah permudahkan..insyaAllah!
hai arianna..
actually bgus jgk yana dpt comment mcmtu..yela,
ad positive comment and negative comment..ape2 pun comment or ckp org at d end yana jgk yg hadapi situasi, yana yg rasa, yana yg lalui. so sumenye terletak ditgn yana. its ur life dear yana. yana blh dgr tp xmesti ikut sume yg org ckp
=)*ika*
eh yana, aku dah lama gila tak bukak page ko atas sebab2 bizi (tak habis2.haha!) erm bagi aku...
islam tu mudah, yang islam pun belum tentu boleh di bimbing dengan baik...kita hanya merancang, tapi Allah yang menentukan..
cuba kau clash dengan dia tanpa sebab, mesti dia fikir orang islam ni memang tak boleh terima orang yang berlainan agama..then mesti ada anasir2 jahat (syaitan hasut dia) hehehe! alah ko paham kan apa aku nak cakap..
kita tak boleh fikir diri kita..kita pun hidup bukan untuk kita sahaja...Allah nak benda ni berlaku mesti bersebab..kan...
alah kalau dia nak suruh kau jumpa dia study sama2 its normal la..as human kita ada perasaan rindu..benda tu tak boleh lari..
kita buat yang terbaik...biar tuhan yang tentukan..as long ko rasa ko kuat untuk ni...aku sentiasa doakan ko..
:)
watever it is Yana...kadang2 kita perlu dngr n kdg2 kita xperlu dngr kta owg...yes mayb Yana boley tya Kelvin...convert sb u or sb Allah SWT..if he can't answer..give him time...suh dia dalami dlu..n suh dia kaji..boleh ke dia nk patuhi ajaran Islam??sb kawen bkn perkara main2.. btw wish u n him happy k
ARGHHH!
I dah tulis panjang panjang my comment tapi terus hilang bila nak publish. URGH!!!
Anyhow, as I was saying (simplified version):
I'm not gonna sugarcoat things for you because I know you don't want to hear that.
That comment is full of crap. I know her intention (I'm assuming it's a her) is good as a fellow Muslim, but she puts too much negativity in there. Thus the whole comment just looks like she's trying to pull you two apart just because she's an uptight hypocritical person.
I mean she's saying that just because Kevin is a non-muslim that makes him untrustworthy?!?!?!?
HA!!!
Yeah, because all born-Muslims are so damn pious and trustworthy and honest and holds all the highest integrity right?
WRONG!
Dear commenter, PLEASE TAKE A LOOK AROUND YOU. Educate yourself a little (or a lot).
Not all Muslims are good. And not all non-Muslims are bad. Beliefs and religions SHOULD NEVER be a factor for trusting/not trusting someone.
Anyhow, back to what I was saying, Kevin needs a reason to learn Islam, and you're the reason.
Maybe it's written that his Call is actually from YOUR bimbingan! I mean jsut think about it, if it's not because of you, then there's a possibility that he might not even consider converting.
YOU have opened up his heart. You have cleared his path. Don't ditch him half way.
Plus, most converts can be more pious thn born-Muslims anyway, because they don't take advantages like we do.
Give Kevin a chance. Don't blow what you have just because of this puny comment.
But all in all, you know him better Arianna. And no one can tell you differently.
DO NOT LET HIM GO.
Sincerely,
Alia.
p/s: I welcome all sorts of retaliations.
hai ariana, just nk share jgk dgn u..ape yg die ckp 2 ade btul ade yg x..the most important think niat, sy rse la kn die buat 2 u rase tsepit or mybe not..now i nk bg u jgn tsepit..hehe..how can he/she say our god (ALLAH)..lol just think about it. cinta mampu ubh sgalenye dear..even die ckp kevin nk take adv or what so ever, tp im sure die lg baik dr lelaki muslim yg ade,..am i right?lelaki muslim rsenye lg truk kot..u kne ykin, mengislam kn seseorg 2 bsr gnjarannya and im pretty sure..org yg msuk islam lebih dlm ingin tau dr org yg da sedia islam..last word , u know him right..so go on with it..try your best dear.
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